Be U: Seeing Me In This Moment

Coming for the Real You.

I'm hoping to share thoughts, fun and insightful information and aha moments with all to better serve ourselves and the universe.

My background is that of Executive Secretary for the local Electric company (11 years).

Certified Personal Trainer (since 1991) and Fitness Consultant for my own company, Beachin Bodies (6 years) and certified in Reiki and Nutrition with training in Cranial Sacral work, Tai Chi, and Meditation. Certified as a Professional Life Coach (2015); Minister at Universal Life Church (2016);

and, possibly, most important,

my own journey through illness and avenues, roads and roadblocks that I have taken to find the real me. (35 plus years).

The me that I was born as. The me that is the all-knowing. I believe the search is endless and we are here to learn and to love and to share it all.

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Seeing Me In This Moment

I see myself writing posts to touch individual people's lives. I see myself struggling while doing this. I see myself wanting to help/fix other people's problems. I see myself not flowing with the words/ideas/thoughts when I do this. When I come from (what I believe) their 'stuff', I'm not feeling completely happy and content. When I come from my own knowing, I'm completely knowing I got this.

I hesitate and reword my posts when I'm considering another person other than myself. I read it several times and change several words. When I come from only me and my thoughts, I find it much easier to let my fingers fly across the keyboard.   I read it once and hardly change anything.

When I'm writing with 'what or how is this person going to respond to what I'm saying', I get slowed down and lose focus and lose faith in myself.

When I write from my life, my knowing, it feels great. When I do anything but this - not so great.

I have been afraid of comments on this blog. I have received 0. Some people have mentioned that they did leave a comment. I do not see one. I sort of think I'm not ready to see any, so for some reason, there are none here. I am mostly happy about this because I know I can be easily intimidated and lose my flow. I get sidetracked from myself.   Although my skin in reality (in some areas) is very thick from too much collagen; I am so not thick skinned. I have this tendency of feeling what the person around me is feeling and taking that on. When people are content and happy around me, I am. When people are angry, uncomfortable, frustrated around me, I take it on as negative energy and it's hard for me to choose happy. I'm working on this. I'm finally aware of this and know that I don't have to live this way. It is a curse and a blessing. I am honored I can feel people so well and I have to learn to tell myself that it is not my stuff to fix. I love the connection with people and I don't like losing the connection to myself.

Heavy stuff for me.  Dizzy again. My truth. I am stating it and I am resisting and taking it in at the same time. Hence, the waves of energy in my brain I suppose. Doesn't feel great and, yet, it feels right. Oh boy.

How are you in this moment?

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My Past Story

The first thing I would always tell a new doctor was 'my dad left me when I was 10'. He just disappeared, ran away. It was pretty awful for me. I thought it was my fault as most kids sometimes do. I thought I was unlovable. Years later, 20 maybe, I realized it wasn't just that my dad left me that affected my life, but also that my mom stayed. She stayed and I'll be forever grateful. However, her staying wasn't all peaches and creme. She was so hurt, so distraught, so frightened to raise three kids on her own and find a job that it was very hard for her to be there for me and my needs. I chose to shutdown, be quiet and try not to make it any harder on her as to not ask for much, or voice much, or need much.

Years later, in 11/12th grade, I noticed my fingers being really cold and hurting all the time. I noticed them turning purple and the pain was very 'loud'. Humorously enough, I had chosen to be a secretary and typing was a big part of my everyday. I loved it even. Fingers flying across the keyboard with as little mistakes as possible was the goal. I was pretty good at it. While in typing class, I remember putting my hands on my neck to try to warm them and make them feel better. I was naive enough then to think this must be happening to everyone.

Anyway, years went by and nobody was able to tell me why this was happening or what to do to make it better. Then, approximately 4 years later, I remember (what I felt) was little me sitting across from a really big doctor at his really big desk and him telling me I was allergic to myself. Of course, this was him describing to me what auto-immune meant. I had a disease called scleroderma and it could kill me (sometimes in as little as five years) and I would most likely be on medicine and have it for the rest of my life and there was nothing to change it.

Anyway, almost 30 years later, I've had my share of pain and I'm alive. I've had ulcerations on my fingers and I have lost most of my nails on both hands from lack of circulation and producing too much collagen. My hands are somewhat not a pretty sight and to hit something with one of my fingers by accident (well, I refer to the feeling as 'going to the moon).

When I was about 30, I started looking at alternative medicine and I tried anything that came across my path to try to stop the pain. I have tried many normal and not so normal 'ideas'. I sometimes do not believe at what lengths I went to try to ease my pain and suffering!

This is what has brought me here to this point in my life.

I'm grateful to be able to learn so much about myself and life and I wouldn't take it back (well, some days I might want to).

Something was telling me to blog. I really didn't know much about blogging - I am still a novice at best. Approximately 5 weeks ago, I sat at my computer and started typing.

I am surprised at where my blogs have led me. I thought I was trying to help others and that still is a big goal of mine. However, what I am finding out is that this is a great outlet for me.

A way to feel like I'm doing something. I told a friend this morning about my blog and I said that it's draining because I put everything out there and do not hold back as I post each individual blog; its fun because it does give me an outlet and I feel a little purpose in my life; and it's scary because I don't want anyone laughing at me or telling me that I am completely 'off my rocker'!

Coming for the Real You.

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Seeing Me In This Moment

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