Be U: Bid

Coming for the Real You.

I'm hoping to share thoughts, fun and insightful information and aha moments with all to better serve ourselves and the universe.

My background is that of Executive Secretary for the local Electric company (11 years).

Certified Personal Trainer (since 1991) and Fitness Consultant for my own company, Beachin Bodies (6 years) and certified in Reiki and Nutrition with training in Cranial Sacral work, Tai Chi, and Meditation. Certified as a Professional Life Coach (2015); Minister at Universal Life Church (2016);

and, possibly, most important,

my own journey through illness and avenues, roads and roadblocks that I have taken to find the real me. (35 plus years).

The me that I was born as. The me that is the all-knowing. I believe the search is endless and we are here to learn and to love and to share it all.

Saturday, April 19, 2014

Bid

I, again, won the online auction. I believe this is the fifth time. It was supposed to be over at 10 p.m.   At 9:55 p.m., another bidder came on board (after six days of no other bidding) and that person and I proceeded to bid for the same property until 1 a.m. in the morning.   The other person finally didn't want it anymore and I won.

While, I felt happy, I also feel very hesitant because of what I have experienced these past four months. The house currently says 'offer is in review' and I walk on anxious and breathing to hear that they are finally willing to complete this deal.

When I tie myself to an outcome of any situation, I can create stress for myself.   I'm doing a very good job of it just now.   A small part of me is calm and completely believing. Another small part of me is giving up myself in order to make this happen.   Another small part of me is completely being myself to make this happen. Another small part of me knows fear. Another small part of me knows that no matter what, I will be okay.

So, as I await the online site's answer, I have many small 'parts' swirling around inside of myself. From moment to moment, I'm not sure which one will show itself.

My body and mind feel on high alert. My soul rests in it. My heart feels a bit agitated. My whole being awaits.

I live in this moment because this is the only moment I have. However, there is a drive that is pulling me forward in excitement.

One cannot make this stuff up.   One can only be their human self and balance what is inside of them as best they can in each moment, each opportunity, each challenge and each breath.

May you balance your human self with your inner knowing and believe that these two can, will, and do work in harmony when we allow it to be so.

May you allow it to be so.

This is hibiscus that is on the corner of the front of the apartment building I currently live in. I have been feeding it since I have arrived here and I am blessed to enjoy these beautiful flowers each time I walk the dogs.

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My Past Story

The first thing I would always tell a new doctor was 'my dad left me when I was 10'. He just disappeared, ran away. It was pretty awful for me. I thought it was my fault as most kids sometimes do. I thought I was unlovable. Years later, 20 maybe, I realized it wasn't just that my dad left me that affected my life, but also that my mom stayed. She stayed and I'll be forever grateful. However, her staying wasn't all peaches and creme. She was so hurt, so distraught, so frightened to raise three kids on her own and find a job that it was very hard for her to be there for me and my needs. I chose to shutdown, be quiet and try not to make it any harder on her as to not ask for much, or voice much, or need much.

Years later, in 11/12th grade, I noticed my fingers being really cold and hurting all the time. I noticed them turning purple and the pain was very 'loud'. Humorously enough, I had chosen to be a secretary and typing was a big part of my everyday. I loved it even. Fingers flying across the keyboard with as little mistakes as possible was the goal. I was pretty good at it. While in typing class, I remember putting my hands on my neck to try to warm them and make them feel better. I was naive enough then to think this must be happening to everyone.

Anyway, years went by and nobody was able to tell me why this was happening or what to do to make it better. Then, approximately 4 years later, I remember (what I felt) was little me sitting across from a really big doctor at his really big desk and him telling me I was allergic to myself. Of course, this was him describing to me what auto-immune meant. I had a disease called scleroderma and it could kill me (sometimes in as little as five years) and I would most likely be on medicine and have it for the rest of my life and there was nothing to change it.

Anyway, almost 30 years later, I've had my share of pain and I'm alive. I've had ulcerations on my fingers and I have lost most of my nails on both hands from lack of circulation and producing too much collagen. My hands are somewhat not a pretty sight and to hit something with one of my fingers by accident (well, I refer to the feeling as 'going to the moon).

When I was about 30, I started looking at alternative medicine and I tried anything that came across my path to try to stop the pain. I have tried many normal and not so normal 'ideas'. I sometimes do not believe at what lengths I went to try to ease my pain and suffering!

This is what has brought me here to this point in my life.

I'm grateful to be able to learn so much about myself and life and I wouldn't take it back (well, some days I might want to).

Something was telling me to blog. I really didn't know much about blogging - I am still a novice at best. Approximately 5 weeks ago, I sat at my computer and started typing.

I am surprised at where my blogs have led me. I thought I was trying to help others and that still is a big goal of mine. However, what I am finding out is that this is a great outlet for me.

A way to feel like I'm doing something. I told a friend this morning about my blog and I said that it's draining because I put everything out there and do not hold back as I post each individual blog; its fun because it does give me an outlet and I feel a little purpose in my life; and it's scary because I don't want anyone laughing at me or telling me that I am completely 'off my rocker'!