Be U: Happy Day

Coming for the Real You.

I'm hoping to share thoughts, fun and insightful information and aha moments with all to better serve ourselves and the universe.

My background is that of Executive Secretary for the local Electric company (11 years).

Certified Personal Trainer (since 1991) and Fitness Consultant for my own company, Beachin Bodies (6 years) and certified in Reiki and Nutrition with training in Cranial Sacral work, Tai Chi, and Meditation. Certified as a Professional Life Coach (2015); Minister at Universal Life Church (2016);

and, possibly, most important,

my own journey through illness and avenues, roads and roadblocks that I have taken to find the real me. (35 plus years).

The me that I was born as. The me that is the all-knowing. I believe the search is endless and we are here to learn and to love and to share it all.

Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Happy Day

Today is a happy day for me. I declare it to be so.

Yes, I am in the middle of one of the biggest changes in my life - my healthcare professionals, drugs, thoughts, processes and I am walking in the unknown.

So many steps are feeling misplaced as I walk through this. They are definitely steps of a certain kind that I have never stepped before.

The whole healthcare system where I am is so different than the last 38 years that I have been challenged to find what works best for me through pain, dis-ease and my truth.

I am challenged. I am challenged to let go of the past and to let the present evolve into what it will. Yes, I am a participant. Yes, I am human. Yes, I have no clear clarity of what is to come.

Deep down within, with me always knowing I was supposed to live in Florida from a very young age of 17, and from my innate trust in God, the universe and myself, I feel myself releasing the struggle to be right; do it right; follow things right and share right...

I share when I can; my truth as best I can. I always have. I hope I always will.

I do what my lessons and society have taught me what is right to my best ability.

I struggle between what I know is right for me and what I have taught myself is the right way to do things.

I find myself releasing all of this as the challenge, the pain, the unbearable is too much to bear.

I stand in my truth and I walk on from here. I see the truth through my eyes and I walk my heart, body and mind through these unknowns knowing that all is well; all is as it needs to be; and all is for my highest good.

I believe. I need to. It is what propels me to carry on.

So, as I have four pills left with new scripts at the pharmacy and the lack of knowing when or if they will be filled - I stop the struggle.

It has always worked out in the past. I have always fallen into the drama of not having medicine that my body has been so dependent on. I am done. I cannot 'play' this game anymore.

It will be what it will be and I will be as I am. I am within the best of my ability to be and live me... And, this is where I find myself this morning.

May you be what you will be as you live and are as you connect to your own innate guidance and love. This is the best way to carry our humanness; just perhaps...

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My Past Story

The first thing I would always tell a new doctor was 'my dad left me when I was 10'. He just disappeared, ran away. It was pretty awful for me. I thought it was my fault as most kids sometimes do. I thought I was unlovable. Years later, 20 maybe, I realized it wasn't just that my dad left me that affected my life, but also that my mom stayed. She stayed and I'll be forever grateful. However, her staying wasn't all peaches and creme. She was so hurt, so distraught, so frightened to raise three kids on her own and find a job that it was very hard for her to be there for me and my needs. I chose to shutdown, be quiet and try not to make it any harder on her as to not ask for much, or voice much, or need much.

Years later, in 11/12th grade, I noticed my fingers being really cold and hurting all the time. I noticed them turning purple and the pain was very 'loud'. Humorously enough, I had chosen to be a secretary and typing was a big part of my everyday. I loved it even. Fingers flying across the keyboard with as little mistakes as possible was the goal. I was pretty good at it. While in typing class, I remember putting my hands on my neck to try to warm them and make them feel better. I was naive enough then to think this must be happening to everyone.

Anyway, years went by and nobody was able to tell me why this was happening or what to do to make it better. Then, approximately 4 years later, I remember (what I felt) was little me sitting across from a really big doctor at his really big desk and him telling me I was allergic to myself. Of course, this was him describing to me what auto-immune meant. I had a disease called scleroderma and it could kill me (sometimes in as little as five years) and I would most likely be on medicine and have it for the rest of my life and there was nothing to change it.

Anyway, almost 30 years later, I've had my share of pain and I'm alive. I've had ulcerations on my fingers and I have lost most of my nails on both hands from lack of circulation and producing too much collagen. My hands are somewhat not a pretty sight and to hit something with one of my fingers by accident (well, I refer to the feeling as 'going to the moon).

When I was about 30, I started looking at alternative medicine and I tried anything that came across my path to try to stop the pain. I have tried many normal and not so normal 'ideas'. I sometimes do not believe at what lengths I went to try to ease my pain and suffering!

This is what has brought me here to this point in my life.

I'm grateful to be able to learn so much about myself and life and I wouldn't take it back (well, some days I might want to).

Something was telling me to blog. I really didn't know much about blogging - I am still a novice at best. Approximately 5 weeks ago, I sat at my computer and started typing.

I am surprised at where my blogs have led me. I thought I was trying to help others and that still is a big goal of mine. However, what I am finding out is that this is a great outlet for me.

A way to feel like I'm doing something. I told a friend this morning about my blog and I said that it's draining because I put everything out there and do not hold back as I post each individual blog; its fun because it does give me an outlet and I feel a little purpose in my life; and it's scary because I don't want anyone laughing at me or telling me that I am completely 'off my rocker'!