Be U: Continue On

Coming for the Real You.

I'm hoping to share thoughts, fun and insightful information and aha moments with all to better serve ourselves and the universe.

My background is that of Executive Secretary for the local Electric company (11 years).

Certified Personal Trainer (since 1991) and Fitness Consultant for my own company, Beachin Bodies (6 years) and certified in Reiki and Nutrition with training in Cranial Sacral work, Tai Chi, and Meditation. Certified as a Professional Life Coach (2015); Minister at Universal Life Church (2016);

and, possibly, most important,

my own journey through illness and avenues, roads and roadblocks that I have taken to find the real me. (35 plus years).

The me that I was born as. The me that is the all-knowing. I believe the search is endless and we are here to learn and to love and to share it all.

Wednesday, June 29, 2016

Continue On

Wherever we are; whatever we are doing; we continue on. Life continues on.

I find that when I trust the process, trust that I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be, life continues on easier.

My eyesight is still playing games with me. It seems that when I looked in the mirror this morning, my right eye is swollen and enlarged. How weird is it that I feel like my eyeballs are harder than they were. I found an eye doctor but when I looked up the information that was given to me, they are no longer there. The one I was seeing currently may have gotten a little freaked when she realized she could not get contact lenses in because of the tightness of my skin. She gave me a referral, I have to find it. I put it in my 'safe' place and forget where my safe place is.

I had another massage yesterday. We mainly focused on my shoulders, scalp, face, and neck. I was so very relaxed. I found myself in the place of not awake but not asleep. I believe that great healing happens here. I feel blessed and grateful that I can do this and I found someone who relates to me and I to her, very well.

Going to the grocery store and the sunbed is a big outing for me these days and I am hoping to get to this. I know sunbeds are very controversial. I know I feel very good in the heat and I fully commit to the down time. I'm hoping everything in moderation and I'm okay. I believe there are many that would disagree. And, I cannot make them feel what I feel or walk their path for them.

Go deep within and know what is best for you. At least, then, you will have lived your happiest, most fulfilled of lives and, this, is what I find is my goal. I'm sure it is many of yours as well.

I wish this for you; if you want it.

So, as I still don't know where my get up and go got up and went, I do believe it will come back. I do believe I have a whole lotta living to do yet.

I believe some of our best days of our lives are still ahead of us. The more open, true and loving we are, the better moments we can create from within ourselves out... just maybe.

May you be open, true and loving and create awesome moments from your inside out. This is where our real lives live... just maybe.

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My Past Story

The first thing I would always tell a new doctor was 'my dad left me when I was 10'. He just disappeared, ran away. It was pretty awful for me. I thought it was my fault as most kids sometimes do. I thought I was unlovable. Years later, 20 maybe, I realized it wasn't just that my dad left me that affected my life, but also that my mom stayed. She stayed and I'll be forever grateful. However, her staying wasn't all peaches and creme. She was so hurt, so distraught, so frightened to raise three kids on her own and find a job that it was very hard for her to be there for me and my needs. I chose to shutdown, be quiet and try not to make it any harder on her as to not ask for much, or voice much, or need much.

Years later, in 11/12th grade, I noticed my fingers being really cold and hurting all the time. I noticed them turning purple and the pain was very 'loud'. Humorously enough, I had chosen to be a secretary and typing was a big part of my everyday. I loved it even. Fingers flying across the keyboard with as little mistakes as possible was the goal. I was pretty good at it. While in typing class, I remember putting my hands on my neck to try to warm them and make them feel better. I was naive enough then to think this must be happening to everyone.

Anyway, years went by and nobody was able to tell me why this was happening or what to do to make it better. Then, approximately 4 years later, I remember (what I felt) was little me sitting across from a really big doctor at his really big desk and him telling me I was allergic to myself. Of course, this was him describing to me what auto-immune meant. I had a disease called scleroderma and it could kill me (sometimes in as little as five years) and I would most likely be on medicine and have it for the rest of my life and there was nothing to change it.

Anyway, almost 30 years later, I've had my share of pain and I'm alive. I've had ulcerations on my fingers and I have lost most of my nails on both hands from lack of circulation and producing too much collagen. My hands are somewhat not a pretty sight and to hit something with one of my fingers by accident (well, I refer to the feeling as 'going to the moon).

When I was about 30, I started looking at alternative medicine and I tried anything that came across my path to try to stop the pain. I have tried many normal and not so normal 'ideas'. I sometimes do not believe at what lengths I went to try to ease my pain and suffering!

This is what has brought me here to this point in my life.

I'm grateful to be able to learn so much about myself and life and I wouldn't take it back (well, some days I might want to).

Something was telling me to blog. I really didn't know much about blogging - I am still a novice at best. Approximately 5 weeks ago, I sat at my computer and started typing.

I am surprised at where my blogs have led me. I thought I was trying to help others and that still is a big goal of mine. However, what I am finding out is that this is a great outlet for me.

A way to feel like I'm doing something. I told a friend this morning about my blog and I said that it's draining because I put everything out there and do not hold back as I post each individual blog; its fun because it does give me an outlet and I feel a little purpose in my life; and it's scary because I don't want anyone laughing at me or telling me that I am completely 'off my rocker'!