Be U: Where I'm At

Coming for the Real You.

I'm hoping to share thoughts, fun and insightful information and aha moments with all to better serve ourselves and the universe.

My background is that of Executive Secretary for the local Electric company (11 years).

Certified Personal Trainer (since 1991) and Fitness Consultant for my own company, Beachin Bodies (6 years) and certified in Reiki and Nutrition with training in Cranial Sacral work, Tai Chi, and Meditation. Certified as a Professional Life Coach (2015); Minister at Universal Life Church (2016);

and, possibly, most important,

my own journey through illness and avenues, roads and roadblocks that I have taken to find the real me. (35 plus years).

The me that I was born as. The me that is the all-knowing. I believe the search is endless and we are here to learn and to love and to share it all.

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Where I'm At

I made it to California. In San Diego, where I am, I see it as many, many people with beautiful mountains, the wonderful ocean and parks and alot of professionals. Very congested, and with much diverse beauty.

The time change of 3 hours is interesting. My body thinks it is 8 pm. Here in CA, it is 5 pm. The sun in shining on me and the air is cool. There are jets flying across the sky fast, strong and loud. Their is beauty in this. May be MIGs, may be I don't know what I'm talking about! (after research I learned a MIG is a Russian jet; in United States they may be called fighter jets (I'd rather just think of them as fast and strong!))

The flight over was nice and easy. 6 hours.

I was lucky to have a massage this morning and what came to my mind during this time was "Silly Putty". It felt like silly putty was on the inside of the base of my head, blocking my life force; burying my cranial sacral pulse. I don't know if you know what silly putty is, but as a child I would put this very thick, heavy, soft and pliable claylike substance on a newspaper article and the imprint would come up on the silly putty. I knew this was telling me that my own 'imprint' was standing by to incorporate change. To me, this meant, my cells, et al have an imprint on how I process and live out information. I am now allowing a new imprint to embody my body, mind and spirit. Me, myself and I are ready to 'play' differently in many aspects of my life.

The authentic me - The me without many masks or without harshly judging my own inner knowing. To just let 'me' flow - the accepting me.

My open minded masseuse thanked me for the session and showed much gratefulness. In her doing this, I feel it truly helped me to take and trust my new imprint through love and to live on and move forward in owning my truth openly and fearlessly.

I will be glad when I don't get exhausted from doing this work and, instead, get energized while allowing it to feel like play.

If you had an imprint on how you process and live information through your own inner knowing, is it the imprint that works best for you?

The good and bad news is you are the only one that can change your own imprint.

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My Past Story

The first thing I would always tell a new doctor was 'my dad left me when I was 10'. He just disappeared, ran away. It was pretty awful for me. I thought it was my fault as most kids sometimes do. I thought I was unlovable. Years later, 20 maybe, I realized it wasn't just that my dad left me that affected my life, but also that my mom stayed. She stayed and I'll be forever grateful. However, her staying wasn't all peaches and creme. She was so hurt, so distraught, so frightened to raise three kids on her own and find a job that it was very hard for her to be there for me and my needs. I chose to shutdown, be quiet and try not to make it any harder on her as to not ask for much, or voice much, or need much.

Years later, in 11/12th grade, I noticed my fingers being really cold and hurting all the time. I noticed them turning purple and the pain was very 'loud'. Humorously enough, I had chosen to be a secretary and typing was a big part of my everyday. I loved it even. Fingers flying across the keyboard with as little mistakes as possible was the goal. I was pretty good at it. While in typing class, I remember putting my hands on my neck to try to warm them and make them feel better. I was naive enough then to think this must be happening to everyone.

Anyway, years went by and nobody was able to tell me why this was happening or what to do to make it better. Then, approximately 4 years later, I remember (what I felt) was little me sitting across from a really big doctor at his really big desk and him telling me I was allergic to myself. Of course, this was him describing to me what auto-immune meant. I had a disease called scleroderma and it could kill me (sometimes in as little as five years) and I would most likely be on medicine and have it for the rest of my life and there was nothing to change it.

Anyway, almost 30 years later, I've had my share of pain and I'm alive. I've had ulcerations on my fingers and I have lost most of my nails on both hands from lack of circulation and producing too much collagen. My hands are somewhat not a pretty sight and to hit something with one of my fingers by accident (well, I refer to the feeling as 'going to the moon).

When I was about 30, I started looking at alternative medicine and I tried anything that came across my path to try to stop the pain. I have tried many normal and not so normal 'ideas'. I sometimes do not believe at what lengths I went to try to ease my pain and suffering!

This is what has brought me here to this point in my life.

I'm grateful to be able to learn so much about myself and life and I wouldn't take it back (well, some days I might want to).

Something was telling me to blog. I really didn't know much about blogging - I am still a novice at best. Approximately 5 weeks ago, I sat at my computer and started typing.

I am surprised at where my blogs have led me. I thought I was trying to help others and that still is a big goal of mine. However, what I am finding out is that this is a great outlet for me.

A way to feel like I'm doing something. I told a friend this morning about my blog and I said that it's draining because I put everything out there and do not hold back as I post each individual blog; its fun because it does give me an outlet and I feel a little purpose in my life; and it's scary because I don't want anyone laughing at me or telling me that I am completely 'off my rocker'!