Coming for the Real You.

I'm hoping to share thoughts, fun and insightful information and aha moments with all to better serve ourselves and the universe.

My background is that of Executive Secretary for the local Electric company (11 years).

Certified Personal Trainer (since 1991) and Fitness Consultant for my own company, Beachin Bodies (6 years) and certified in Reiki and Nutrition with training in Cranial Sacral work, Tai Chi, and Meditation. Certified as a Professional Life Coach (2015); Minister at Universal Life Church (2016);

and, possibly, most important,

my own journey through illness and avenues, roads and roadblocks that I have taken to find the real me. (35 plus years).

The me that I was born as. The me that is the all-knowing. I believe the search is endless and we are here to learn and to love and to share it all.










Thursday, November 6, 2025

Breathe.

Breathe.  Be.  Breathe again.  Close your eyes.  Breathe.  Be.  Breathe again. 

I realize I am going mindfully back to my breath more.  Into my breath more often just now.  I cannot so quickly seem to get myself and/or my mind away from all the 'noise' constantly readily available to most of us.  So, I sit in my breath when this choice feels better/best.  

Part of me thinks it's, most likely, a great thing that this 'noise' is here and we can choose how to react and/or create anew along with it and through it.

Part of me wants to take a break and/or hide from it and not be aware so continuously.

Part of me wants to stay in my inner peace and never come out.

I'm sure there are, yet, other parts of me experiencing this life of today through every breath I take in many human ways.  

This being human is a real journey of and through so many possibilities - endless possibilities.

You are unlimited.  Your life is most fully available in the here and now.

I read where someone said that 'I have had a million issues in my life.  Only 100 of them were true.'  Our minds, thoughts, reactions and experiences surely can conjure up possibilities that we want everything to do with and possibilities that we want nothing to do with.  Some are easy.  Some are not.  And, everything in between.

This is your life; your journey.  You are the only one that lives it continuously from birth to death.  

May you breathe as much of what it is you want to experience and how you want to experience it as much as possible. 

As you enjoy a moment or time, fully engage.  As you are feeling that you are experiencing moments or times you would rather not, breathe and step outside of it and realize your best potential through it.  The truth of; the reality of your full experience.  See it and live it through as much self-love as possible.  

Is it possible that a 'bad day' is maybe just a 'bad moment' that is partial of the day...

Is is possible that something that frustrates you shows up to teach you and connect you to a better way of being You... Breathing through...

Breathe. 

May you honor yourself and your breath.

Friday, October 24, 2025

The Line

"Toe the line."

"Stay within the lines."

"Follow the line."

"Get in line."

"Stay in line."

These are sentences that many of us grew up with.

The understanding of the line(s) may have altered.

Things are different, loopy, changed, challenged and rewritten/reworded/renamed.  

There is, perhaps, not much that is straight forward or 100% right for all of us; there is forward.

So, forward we will go.

May you keep stepping through into your 'forward'. 

Let your love, your truth, your kindness, and your wisdom guide you and lead You.

May we keep going forward; individually, together.

Whoop, here we are/go.


Thursday, October 9, 2025

Hey Hey Hey

"Hey, Hey, Hey.  What ya got to say"...  Kool & the Gang

May you check in with yourself and, perhaps, find words to what you are experiencing.   It is not a necessity.  It could prove helpful.

Awareness of what we want, wish for and experience can allow us to create our best reality and live our truest of self.

Free.  Empowered.  Curious.  Real.

This is how I enjoy living best; now.  I have tried many different ways.  Being and sharing my true and loving self (even if angry/hurt or feeling fear) is digging deep and honoring who I am and keeps me on the path of fulfillment.  

Fulfillment doesn't always feel wonderful.  It can feel iffy, unknown, new and scary.  And, being fulfilled being true to myself empowers me and offers this 'power' into our world. Vulnerable and Humane.

Kindness goes a long way.  Deep into ourselves.  Far reaching out into the world.  "Paying it forward" is real.

We tap into energies we are around and feel.  

As I stay in the energy of what feels best, true and most loving to me is the energy that makes me feel complete.  

Trusting the process of our journey.  Honoring who and what we are and feel...  May you be/get You some; if it feels right for You.  Trust in divine timing.

What is meant for You will not miss You.  The process of You may be most entertained through the reality of your feelings and mindset.

You are the only one you spend your entire life with.  May you make it as pleasant as possible.

May you be aware, feel, accept, change, create anew and step through and on.

Hey, Hey, Hey.  What ya got to say...    

Thursday, September 25, 2025

Fine Line

There is a fine line, I feel, that is present in many ways, experiences and moments throughout these days.

From wonderful magical weddings and love, to new homes and awe, to togetherness and dis-connect.  Through dis-ease, dis-comfort along with avoidance and stepping fully in.  It surely is not a straight line.  It zigs and it zags.  It is life and being human.  

This human experience 'ain't' no joke.  And it can feel real and/or unreal in every moment and experience that we have.  It is real for each of us even when the same experience that feels one way to me can feel completely different to you.

Trippy and a hoot.  

Honor how You feel.

May you never be afraid of your feelings.  May you honor and know them.  Be true and present to them.  Love through them.  Live through them.  'The only way through is through'...  or so I've read and it felt like the most positive, loving way to me.  Open mind.  Open heart.  

May you trust your truth and let your wisdom, intelligence, kindness and love take you through and forward.

May it be a wonderful way to journey through your life... just being You.  

Oh What a Time

It truly is a time of change.  A time of opinions.  A time of vibrations.  A time of experiences that are colliding between the old and the new.  A time of creation.  A time of vibrancy through who we are and what we have inside of us with what is showing up outside of us. This, too, can feel like a collision.  It is a hoot.  It is a challenge.  It is love.  It is not love.  You know You best.  You are the only one who you spend your entire life with. 

May you make your time being You as pleasant as possible.  

To my right outside, just now, there are very dark skies with lightning streaking through them.  To my left front are white puffy clouds that seem dormant.  Some of the palm fronds are doing a slow dance.  Others are quite still.

Many of us are experiencing the 'light' and the 'dark' and many depths of both and everything in between. 

It may not the most comfortable time to be alive.  It just may be the most exciting time.

Just maybe You are here, living now, because who and what you are is a passage, a pause, a door and an extremely valuable part of this 'now'; our presence in a collective mode.  

May you connect into yourself through your own loving peace and your own truth.  Perhaps, a truth that you have denied or buried.  Perhaps, a peace that feels like it was torn away from you.  Tap into yourself and see/feel/be the awesome that is You(rs).   It is always there.  

When you feel and live true to You, you are living from the inside out.  Let your love lead. 

You truly are the magic, the power, the love, the connection, the way, the answer that you may be searching for.   You.  It has and always will be You(rs).  

May you know thyself and be thyself.  'Just 9Be U' to completion.   Again and again and again.

You are Love(d).

May it be so.  May you let it be so.  May you know it to be so.  It is so.  Amen.


Thursday, September 11, 2025

Possibilities

We humans have so many possibilities; an infinite, endless amount.

I am feeling like I, perhaps, could be using and living in and through more than I currently do and am.  

There is a lot of living between high and low; on and off; up and down; in and out; over yonder and right here; yesterday and tomorrow. I am learning that there are so many options within the options that I already am aware of.

It is time for me to open to new possibilities.  Possibilities of change; possibilities of growth, possibilities of acceptance; possible possibilities that come through my own loving truth and trusting myself as much as possible and, also, trusting the process of my life as it flows through me and shows up to me. 

The process of life offers these infinite and endless possibilities for and to us all.

May you open up to possibility living within You and showing up for You.  Be kind.  Let love.  Honor what is as you explore what is inside of you yet to live.  Open up to the truth of the experience(s) of You. 

May you amaze yourself.

May we live in beautiful amazement together.

In the the simple things and in new ways of living/being/loving and creating.

The time has come.  The time is always present.  

You.  Anything is possible through You.

May you feel it, allow it, trust it and live in it... as You.  

Namaste'

Blessings and Bliss.

From my discovery to your own...

May we breathe into, through and forward -- this thing called life and living.

God bless humanity.  God bless You.

Oh, the amazing possibilities of You.  


Friday, August 22, 2025

Love Graciously

Love happens in many different relationships and shows up in many ways.

The falling in love part is one of the most fun and enjoyable feelings I have known, and fortunately, many times.  It is a joy and, I believe, it comes through our very own heart and what we see and experience through our own senses is what makes it so.  

We fall in love as we choose our partners in life.   We fall in love with our children.  We fall in love with pets, friends, things, family members and people we choose as family members.  Sunsets, sunrises, activities, hobbies.   So many of life’s characters and characteristics we fall in love with when we are open to it and even when we are not.

May you never stop falling in love.   

May you fall in love with yourself; again and again and again.

Love can look like laughter and fun.  It can be uplifting.  It can be helping another, it can be speaking our innermost truth to another.  It can be listening to one another’s innermost truth and/or vulnerabilities with open hearts and minds.   Invite and share empathy and compassion.  Care. Be open to understanding.  

Love teaches us.  Changes us.  Inspires us.  Habituates us.  We do things because of love and through love. 

There can be many lessons in love. Triumphs.

Not sharing or feeling consideration and respect is not love to me.  It is either fear, hurt, anger and/or expectations unmet that can create a non-loving moment. 

To love one’s self and consider one’s own feelings just may be the greatest love that opens the greatest paths for us individually and, truly, all of humankind.  When we do, feel, or say things that do not include our innermost truth/needs, that is not a love that can last.  When we give our own needs and desires up for ‘love’, we can create a war within ourselves.  To move forward, change, truth and vulnerability create the best relationships within ourself  and others.

This open heart and mind truthful energy can imbed itself in every breath we take.  It can and does create a new and deeply fulfilling life and it shows us graciousness and invites great gratitude.   We come alive living who we are, truthfully and lovingly, from the inside out.  

I wish you honor of who and what you feel on the inside and to know the graciousness and deep fulfillment of sharing your truth with compassion and kindness out.